Michael is a Five

First of all, Michael would never take a personality test.  He would say they are dumb and he doesn't care anyway.  Second of all, he doesn't have to take the test - I can tell exactly which number he is.

I copied this from their site:

The Observer (the Five)

Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical, and insightful. 

How to Get Along with Me 

• Be independent, not clingy. 
• Speak in a straightforward and brief manner. 
• I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts. 
• Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable. 
• Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity. 
• If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place. 
• don't come on like a bulldozer. 
• Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy. 

What I Like About Being a Five 

• standing back and viewing life objectively 
• coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects 
• my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure 
• not being caught up in material possessions and status 
• being calm in a crisis 

What's Hard About Being a Five 

• being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world 
• feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all 
• being pressured to be with people when I don't want to be 
• watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or technical skill, do better professionally 

Fives as Children Often 

• spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on 
• have a few special friends rather than many 
• are very bright and curious and do well in school 
• have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers
• watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information 
• assume a poker face in order not to look afraid 
• are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict 
• feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected 

Fives as Parents 

• are often kind, perceptive, and devoted 
• are sometimes authoritarian and demanding 
• may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate
• may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions 

Oh how I love my Five.  God knew just what He was doing when He put us together!

I suggest you and your husband take the tests, then look up how marriages work with your numbers.  I'll post Ones married to Fives tomorrow.  I totally needed this when we first got married.  Michael was a difficult guy to figure out!